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I'm going to focus on the silver linings of this whole mess at H_E.

One, H_E as a whole is more unified. I've seen a lot of cross-house support and respect as people try to deal with this girl.

Two, I really feel that I've gotten to know some people better, become better friends than before. Maybe it would have happened eventually, under better circumstances, but it did happen now, with her as the direct impetus.

Three, though her drama ended up overshadowing it, as a community we did get to discuss concepts of houses, so we might end up with a better sorting of future applicants.

/end H_E stuff.

As for the rest of the day, that was also pretty good.

I had a test in Animal Behavior. Overall I think I did well, but I know there were a few questions that I probably messed up on.

In Physics, we got our tests back. Mom, Dad, make sure you're sitting down. I got an A. *waits for parents to recover from shock* He told us at the begining of the course that he had a larger range of what he counted an A or a B. A's were from 85% to 100%, B's were 70% to 85%, C's were 60% to 70%. I got an 86%. The girl I've been coaching got a 70%. And that was the test I thought I'd done the worst on!

And for Eco/Evo lab, we went out to Wesselman Woods and identified trees. My group had a girl with a broken foot in a borg boot, so after the first time where we all tromped out into the underbrush with the thorns, she and I stayed behind and the other two girls went out. Through the wonders of modern telecommunications, they identified the trees and relayed their diameters through her, and I wrote everything down and kept track of data. Because of that, we got through three transacts in the time it took everyone else to do two. As my mother would say, creative laziness.

Date: 2006-09-20 01:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ljmckay.livejournal.com
Yay for your physics test!! That's simply AWESOME; congratulations! :D

As for the H_E stuff, way to focus on the positive. I only know what I heard through you, but it sounds like it was pretty bad. But see, entries like this one is why you will live longer than the average person -- or at least enjoy what time you have more!

Date: 2006-09-20 04:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mari4212.livejournal.com
*glees* I'm really happy, now if I can just keep it up!

Really, the sorting business was more annoying than anything else, it was just that it was a bunch of annoyances all coming at once. The stuff with this girl, well, we're working at a solution. Outside of incidents like this, which are normally quite rare, H_E is a ton of fun. And even in times like these, there are the bright points.

I'm actually borrowing from Stoic philosophy here, that if you cannot change the events, you can change your attitude about those events. It does seem to help.

Date: 2006-09-20 04:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mari4212.livejournal.com
And I didn't mention this earlier, but great icon! It's such a perfect capture of his expression.

Date: 2006-09-20 02:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] glacierscout.livejournal.com
Actually, the sorting wank wasn't so horribly bad, but some of the meta afterwards got a bit intense, especially in Gryffindor and in the overall community. The eagles and the Badgers were fairly well behaved, and the Slytherins were positively nasty on the subject of Puff bashing.

On the good side, as we Eagles discussed the mess and I entered into the ranting in a pleasant way, I had at least five additional pleple ad me as friends. [livejournal.com profile] mari4212 is right that the response to the wank was positive.

Date: 2006-09-20 02:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] much-reality.livejournal.com
the Slytherins were positively nasty on the subject of Puff bashing.


Woah, they were? Would you mind linking me, because that bothers me a lot?

Date: 2006-09-20 02:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mari4212.livejournal.com
I think, knowing my father's phrasing in this matter, that he meant that the Slytherins got nasty about people trying to bash Hufflepuff (as in, they were speaking in defense of Hufflepuffs) not that they themselves were nastily bashing Hufflepuff.

Date: 2006-09-20 02:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] much-reality.livejournal.com
Oh, phew! Because seriously, housebashing isn't really Snakey, in fact if anyone started that in our common room, they'd get slapped down en masse. So that worried me.

Date: 2006-09-20 04:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mari4212.livejournal.com
Yeah, it's normally the Slytherins who are the first to leap to our defense in sorting. You guys are awesome.

Date: 2006-09-20 03:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] glacierscout.livejournal.com
What my daughter said.

I'm actually proud of how the Slytherins can't stand 'Puff bashing. It seems that it ranks as the number 2 example of Slytherpushing, right after I'M SO EEEEVILLLLL!!!

Date: 2006-09-20 09:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] much-reality.livejournal.com
Ahaha, yes, and we also get applicants pushing Slytherin who say, with the hugest pride, that they use and betray their friends. We're.."and you think we'll want to associate with you why, exactly...?"

Date: 2006-09-20 05:33 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] svimmelhet.livejournal.com
Yeah, I must've missed that too..

Date: 2006-09-20 06:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mari4212.livejournal.com
*points upwards*

False alarm, it was just my dad's phrasing not being the best. He meant that Slytherins were getting nasty in Hufflepuff's defense, against those who would bash our house in an attempt to push Slytherin.

Date: 2006-09-20 02:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] much-reality.livejournal.com
I'm just off to bed, but thanks for that. I was just reduced to fury by reading her latest post and comments (though bless Claire, as always) and as I can't reply myself for obvious reasons, my fists were clenched. But you're so right- a lot of good has come, and I know you a ton better now! ♥ It isn't all bad, by any means.

The community members, by and large, are amazing people.

Date: 2006-09-20 02:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mari4212.livejournal.com
That post in her journal where she warped the facts so that it seemed like you were the one acting evilly and she was the innocent victim? Yeah, that had me gnashing my teeth too. But I saw Claire and others already stepping in to defend you, so I let them have at her.

*hugs* I'm an insane optimist, writing things like this reminds me of how much I love the community, even when it occasionally drives me nuts. I had a similar motivation behind posting that love meme up at H_E main on Sunday.

Date: 2006-09-20 02:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] much-reality.livejournal.com
Hee, that was why I did the Superlatives, so I hear you on that front. (Sorting fights were starting to bubble, I wanted to distract people with an "oooh shiny!")

I think it's weirder if you've read the emails. I mean, I swear to God, I really tried to help her. and then...this. O_o;;

Date: 2006-09-20 04:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mari4212.livejournal.com
Great minds think alike. :)

It's just nuts. You were nothing if not helpful and nice to her, you gave many different strategies to help her avoid conflict in the future, and then out of nowhere she's attacking you.

I also love the about face she does on certain points. She spent so long in your journal claiming that she hadn't been rude and if it was it wasn't on purpose. All of a sudden, everywhere else, she says that she was rude on purpose, to "Prove A Point To Olivia". One of these things is not like the other.

Date: 2006-09-20 09:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] much-reality.livejournal.com
Yeah, that amused me somewhat. I think she also managed to claim both at the same time in the really scary email, too. That was interesting. O_o;;

Also found it telling that she was claiming in the first mail she sent me that she hadn't known she was rude to [livejournal.com profile] starrysilver till I told her, she thought it was just a discussion. Yet in the later email, she was being brutally bullied then, and standing up for herself, and they should have apologised to her as well.

*Confused face*

Well...which? It can't be both!

Date: 2006-09-20 06:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mari4212.livejournal.com
Someone really has to sit down and explain the rules of logic to her. Something cannot be both A and not-A at the same time.

Oh well, we get the petition written, signed, and turned over to Wizen and then we'll be out of it.

Date: 2006-09-20 11:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] much-reality.livejournal.com
Yeah, amen to that. -_-

Date: 2006-09-20 11:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] skirmish-of-wit.livejournal.com
Wait, wait, she wanted me to apologize to her, too?

Date: 2006-09-20 11:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] much-reality.livejournal.com
Well, given the ranting it was hard to discern meaning, but I think the following:

I wanted to make up for the moments I actually spent with a lack in self-confidence. You see, I actually almost let myself believe that I was the only one in the wrong, even after you attacked me, and refused to see that your friends were being rather rude to me too.

you refuse to admit that you are also in the wrong, and that your friends were also in the wrong.


would rather indicate that, yes. ^_^

Also not sure why I owed her an apology after spending ages trying to help her. But oh well, with luck it'll all be over soon, anyway.

Date: 2006-09-21 12:08 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] skirmish-of-wit.livejournal.com
Huh. Innnnteresting. Must've missed that through boggling at why she could possibly expect an apology from you! Now I see how my saying "I'm not angry or offended or anything like that, and I hope you're not either. I'm not attacking you personally," as I did in my second comment to her, is incredibly rude. OMG, how do I sleep at night?!

I think it would be only fair to give her some examples of the difference between the way I behave during polite discussion and the way I behave when I'm rude. For pedagogical purposes, naturally, and not at all because I have wanted to smite her ever since she posted that last entry in her lj... ;) It's too bad trolling won't solve anything.

Date: 2006-09-20 03:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mel06.livejournal.com
Congrats on the physics test! I told you it is really not that bad. I can only pray that I do as well on my physical chem test tomorrow as you did on your physics *crosses fingers*


*sigh* I miss my E&E class.

Date: 2006-09-20 06:35 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mari4212.livejournal.com
Yeah, I'm pretty happy about the grade.

Good luck on your test!

Date: 2006-09-20 05:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] svimmelhet.livejournal.com
I love your optimism with regards to HE wank. It's refreshing for a change. :)

Date: 2006-09-20 06:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mari4212.livejournal.com
You can focus on the negatives or focus on the positives. I've found focusing on the positive helps me out, as long as I don't ignore the negatives to the extent that they turn around and bite me.

Date: 2006-09-20 11:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] skirmish-of-wit.livejournal.com
I would just like to reiterate how awesome you are and how glad I am that you're on my flist. Seriously, it was really wonderful to come across a post pointing out the best sides of even this wanktastic situation.

And way to pwn that exam! I like to hear about people pwning Physics since it oppresses me every day. *shakes fist at gravity*

Date: 2006-09-20 11:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] much-reality.livejournal.com
Physics was the only thing I failed at HS. I just could not do it at all, I dropped it at 14. >.>

Date: 2006-09-21 03:28 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mari4212.livejournal.com
*hugs* Aww, thank you!

I had this same physics course last year, and I think the highest test grade I got was a C. It totally beat me then. This year I've got a teacher who actually makes sense, it's amazing what a difference that made.

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